Christian Small Groups

The value of participating in a Christian small group is your ability to make good friends.  Personally, I shy away from speaking up in large groups.  I tend to stay quiet and just listen, even if I’m dying to jump into the discussion.  Small groups, on the other hand, provide a more comfortable arena to share my views.  I’m not embarrassed about saying what I think.  I’m also able to make friends because I’m considered outgoing and friendly.  It’s just a fact that quiet people can sometimes be mistaken as snobbish and judgmental.

My recommendation for making the most of your time in a small group is this:  don’t be afraid to speak up!  If you’re with fellow believers, chances are good that no one will say, “Well, that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard!”  For the most part, we Christians are loving and encouraging.  We want to help each other grow and learn.  And most of us live by the Golden Rule:  Treat others as you would like to be treated.

Media and the Christian Life

In my opinion, the Media:

1) Leads impressionable kids and teens astray.

2) Makes it seem like sin is the only way to have any fun.

3) Gives one the impression that the acts portrayed are okay (everyone is doing it, it’s okay as long as you don’t get caught, and your parents probably did the same thing).

4) Is time wasted that could be better spent on godly things.

5) Lingers in your mind.

What the Bible says:

Romans 12:2

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is –his good, pleasing and perfect will.

What we can do about it:

1) Monitor what our kids are reading, watching on TV and at the movies, and listening to on the radio.

2) Try to incorporate some wholesome, clean fun into our lives and the lives of our children.

3) Let our children know what behavior is and is not okay.  Also, live by the same standards you give your kids.  Become a good role model!

4) Spend your time reading the Bible and listening to worship songs.  Pick up a good Christian novel or nonfiction book.  Watch a G-rated Disney movie with your kids!

5) Replace bad thoughts with good thoughts.  Fill your mind with the Word.  And don’t allow the world’s influence any air time in your brain!